U want the job so bad. U believe that u’ll do anything to get it. And eventually u got the job. Good. But what is ur plan to keep urself from losing it?
Take car instead. Getting a car that u want is easy, *u can even pay Zero down payment nowadays* . it’s keeping up with the monthly loan, in the midst of all sort of bills is the hardest part. Getting in is easy. Staying in takes work.
Or marriage. U fall in love, u want to the part of each other’s life. Well, to utter the vows might be easy. But hey, even the most peaceful and loving marriage could collapse. Why?
Why can’t thing stay the same? Why is it that once u stay in love, and u can’t stay that way? Is it too much to expect when someone promise to love for the rest of his or her life, will keep the promise? Perhaps we should only promise what we know is achievable. At least, that’s what I always do with my promises. Too careful to promise, so that I’ll not break the promise.
The point is, we shouldn’t look at our partner/spouse/lover as something that we’ve won finally.
Maybe we should look at them as who they are à the extension of ourselves and how hard we’ve work to make it true.
equally, once your loved one ‘promotes’ u into being the hubby or wife, don’t rest ur case as u’re finally arrived at the destination. Because if u stop paying attention, it means that u don’t play for keep. And u will only have urself to blame.
The choice is yours.~