May 09, 2010

friendship is something. and relationship is something else.


masa tengok cite Gossip Girl *ceh gossip girl lagi* then suddenly aku terfikir something,,

kenapa people boleh break a relationship, but not a friendship?

when a relationship is not healthy, we might get away from it. for our own sake. most of the time.
however if a friendship is not healthy, breaking-off from it just like a Taboo words. impossible.
rasa pelik tak.?

try to reason that; i come out with an assumption.

it is because friend lasts forever.
lover doesn't.

you sure arr?? habeh tu orang yg kawen tu apa crita pulak? tak ke partner dia tu adalah companion yg kekal untuk dia??
yeke friend will always be there? takkan seseorang tu akan mengadap kawannnn je sepanjang masa. weh kalau tiap kali susah carik kawan, susah je carik kawan aku rasa mau lari jugak kawan tu haa. kalau partner, tiap kali kau susah dia lari x?

kalau kawan buat perangai, kita sanggup pejam mata. tahann je.
kawan partner buat perangai *same scene*, kita mula la rasa bengang.

who says detaching from a relationship is hard?
detaching from a friendship is damn harder.


tell me something, penah dengar x org cakap "aku da break-off dgn kawan aku." penah?

so memang takde ke istilah breaking-the-unhealthy-friendship?




*note: geram aku dgn Serena n Blair tu, she better off without her. boyfriend buat silly mistake je da break-off. tp bff dia fail kan dia punya Uni application n humiliating in front of people pon bule nak berkawan lg. not healthy. not healthy.
Elmo pulak dah pas tgk gossip girl. hoh!


X.O.X.O.

2 comments:

rhapsody LiN said...

sy STUJU 100%... that's why kalau boleh i try not to have any special affair(couple) with my own friend.. nanti kalau clash kan dh olang 1 kawan.. bukan x boleh kwn lepas clash.. japi friendship tu dh x sama mcm sebelumnya..

Belly-Button said...

i mean bkn fren yg btuka jd boyfren/girlfren je,, tp kalau got fren yg intoxicated. yg unhealthy.

tgk cite gossip girl x? dlm cite tu da da example nye. :)