August 27, 2009

What if he/she changes someday..?


sometimes people think that they can cope with changes.
tambah2 kalau from the beloved ones. sebab dah sayang kan....
but somehow its not that easy.
kalau da kasih dah sayang tu semua bule terima, really??
tapi perlu ke nak menerima and menerima je with arm wide open?

semalam suddenly i got msg from kapt. tarzan,

"actually i wanna ask u wut if i start smoke someday? wut do u think?"

no. no. no.
"kalau ko mmg smoke dr awal, memang sah2 ko bule jadi kawan plg kamceng aku, real bff aku, tp setakat tu jela. i'll never think of u beyond that."

mau je aku jawab gitu. masalah terbesar aku adalah sesak nafas dgn asap rokok.
tp get real lah. dah jadi partner takkan xde tolerate and adaptation. *abeh, nak dia je tolerato ngn ko?*
plus benda tak berlaku pon lagi, so jangan nak meroyan lebeyh2.
and aku tak rasa dia akan smoke coz dia mmg tak suka rokok. knape dia bule tanya cam gitu pon aku taktau.

jawapan aku bg soalan dia adalah,
i really dunno.


tapi mmg betol, time after time people changes.
wut matter most is how u cope with the changes.

my question is,,


what if someday u find out that ur partner is not like what u've expected??
*tak kira la in any way*


16 comments:

shasha said...

we cannot change people...people change when they want to...

Belly-Button said...

sometimes people change,
but sometimes they reveal...

HaninFarshid said...

hehehe..at least sha dapat nampak sebelum kawin :) kalau dah kawin? memang kena banyak2 sabar..takde sapa yg perfect...if u really love him....u will try to accept the changes...walaupun susah...

Belly-Button said...

[kak nin]
i dunno why he suddenly asked this, he's not a smoker. never. maybe he wanna know my response.
and u're right, nobody perfect..

faRra said...

k.Sha..
if he ask me that ques, i'l oso give an asnwer exactly like urs....
'dunno'
but bak kaye k.Nin, no matter in wut way he/she changes, if we oredi love him/her, we have to accept it..
n i guess that's wut im doing rite now..in a better way..:)))

kueh bakar said...

tuan rumah...tukar laa bckground ko...susah mau bace laa..huhuhu

Belly-Button said...

[farra]
u do, too? ;)
but i hope someday tu xkan tiba..huhu.. tp kalu kne pilih between ppuan laen or rokok...
oke sy pilih rokok!
huuu~

Belly-Button said...

[kueh bakar]
haha really???
ade suggestion ke tuka kaler ape??

Hafiz Hamid said...

terima saje dirinye seadenye...=)

Arin said...

etul la tuan tanah, adakala payah nak baca entry..terhalang oleh gambar background tuh..:)

w|cKa` said...

kalo dia tnya k.izan soalan camtu, k.izan jawab "org pon nak join skali la..bleh?u smoking i pon nak smoking la.. baru sehati sejiwa" hahahahah

Belly-Button said...

[hafiz]
so far i do...
i just wonder pasal rokok ni will i? hmm..

[arin]
hoo baek2.. wkend ini akan ku selenggara tanah jajahan ni!~

Belly-Button said...

[kak izan]
hee cane kalu dia jwb,,
"yeke?? i mmg br je nk ajak u join, kang xajak nati u kecik ati.."
hah haru....! haha!

The Unconscious said...

people change all the time. Believe me they do. Some change to the best and some change to the worse. If you're alright with the changes that took place then there's nothing to worry about. If you feel that the changes that has happened is affecting you in some ways then you should address it rather than letting it be and hoping that the person would change or you can change the person. YOU CAN NEVER CHANGE A PERSON - only that person can do or bring a difference to themselves. Smoking only what :P
even if he really start smoking just tell him not to smoke when he's with you - im sure he'll respect your needs as well :) or why dont you tell him that if he start smoking then you will join smoking as well hehehe....surely he wont want you to smoke...
Just make sure in the end you're happy

Belly-Button said...

charlie,,
i like ur thought ;)
actually i do say to him if someday he really start smoking then dont smoke wen he is with me, dont even smell like a cigarette. hee.
yea i could never change a person.. we hope fer d best lah eh...

MeGa said...

benci perubahan.
benci.